Why Is My Boyfriend Getting On My Nerves?
I have been dating a wonderful guy for about 5 months. Just this week he has been getting on my nerves but it seems like for no reason. We’ve been having great times together the past couple of weeks so it is really out of the blue that I feel like this. Does anyone have any guess on why I feel like this?
oohrita says:
January 31st, 2010 at 11:20 pm
Whenever you spend any decent amount of time with someone, there are likely to be things they do that annoy you. There are probably things you do that annoy him, too. It doesn’t mean you like each other any less or you should spend any less time together unless it becomes a constant thing. It’s just the natural ebb and flow of a relationship, nothing to worry about. Also, depending upon where you are in your cycle, you can be more sensitive to things. If you’re about to start your period, or you’re ovulating (mid-cycle), you can have weird mood fluctuations and you can react more strongly than you normally would. But like I said, I really doubt it’s anything to worry about.
Douglas B says:
February 1st, 2010 at 3:08 am
Katie, I doubt that it is out of the blue that this is happening. I think something happened that upset you or you witnessed something and it made you uneasy. Our minds can be sending us messages that the heart doesn’t want to hear. Almost anything else as far as incompatibility would have shown up long before this. Check back to when this first started, was there something he said, something he did to someone else that was a warning sign that something wasn’t right? Those warning signs are usually the things that haunt you, telling you to be careful. You usually have peace of mind in a healthy relationship.
moonglow says:
February 1st, 2010 at 9:20 am
I go through phases like this too. My guy and I will get along great for a while and I love being with him, but then all of the sudden he starts getting on my nerves and I don’t even want to be in the same room with him. It’s not really anything he’s doing, just being himself. It really irritates me when he whistles songs, he thinks he some master whistler, but it really hurts my ears. Then a bit of time will pass and we’ll be doing great again. Give it a little time, every relationship goes through cycles. If you don’t start feeling better about him in at least a month, maybe it’s time to move on. Good luck!
Trixie says:
February 1st, 2010 at 4:04 pm
Maybe because all those annoying little “quirks” are coming out… You’ve been together for 5 months now, so he’s probably feeling like he can be himself around you without having to impress you so darn much – You are entering the “relaxing” part of your relationship….
George A says:
February 1st, 2010 at 6:08 pm
Do you guys hang out alot? Because close proximity to a person for long periods of time eventually leads to frustration.
I would suggest seeing him a little less. Maybe some days out of the week hang out with your friends AND Him. Or just your friends.
Absense makes the heart grow fonder. (lame I know, but it applies)
Wordpress Autoblogging Software says:
February 1st, 2010 at 9:33 pm
i feel the same way, is he doing something that you dont want him to do ??
is he not paying that much attention to you ?
good luck !
hope this helped
xxx
Jennifer says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 4:15 am
that has happened to me…it was just some sort of phase i was in.
maybe its your hormones? or maybe there is something building up that he did that you didnt like.
Richelle B says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 5:23 am
i get like this about once a month…ya know that certain time…ugh. usually it’s right after my period or during it…don’t sweat it! you will hopefully be feeling back to normal soon.
Power says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 7:43 am
maybe its out side factors that are stressing/annoying you which then puts you in a “cant be stuffed mood” and you then dont care to much about him.
Good luck with it
Wordpress Autoblogging Software says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 8:35 am
ITS NOT U ITS HIM! HE WANTS TO GO TO CHUCK E. CHEESE!! HE JUST DOESNT KNOW HOW TO TELL U SO DATS WHY HES GETTING ON UR NERVES!!!
workshop tools says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 9:13 am
maybe your spending to much time together. that happens a lot. suggest a day for yourself. go hang out with your girl friends. you never no you might miss him after wards
wtfhow old are you? says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 11:20 am
well you prolly havent been making him enuff sandwiches….
weim lover says:
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:51 pm
hormones or you are no longer in love with him